My wife and I are 31, no kids yet. We moved from a major city back to our home state and are struggling to make friends here.
We keep an eye on meetup postings and Facebook events, stuff like that, no luck. We went to a local board game night and it was all elderly people. Nothing wrong with that but not exactly what we’re looking for.
Where we lived before we attended a church we liked and met people there, but churches in our area are a lot different/more political than we’re used to.
I guess eventually we’ll have kids and meet other parents, but how do we make friends now at this stage in our lives?
In Canada we have something called the Kinsmen Society that is a non-profit, secular service organization. It’s just there for volunteering to help around the community, and there’s events for couples to socialize as part of the planning and volunteer activities. It’s pretty popular in the rural communities. Maybe you’re in Canada, or there’s something similiar for a volunteer program in your area.
It’s kinda age stratified, where at 40 you are more a part of an older cadre of volunteers and advisors, as a younger couple you’d do more of the event organization and service, and the people in that group would be similiar aged.