Is there a way to figure out if they blocked youon Signal if you can still technically message them?

Edit: he seems to have blocked me or hasn’t used Signal since a single emphatically non-controversial/non-hurtful comment so he either blocked me or hasn’t opened Signal for >month. He’s not responding to anything else either so he’s either depressed or blocked+done with me.

Edit: I’ll know when it comes birthday time. I’m not a Bridezilla about birthdays but it would be unusual for him to not wish me one. He’s never not done so. I’ll have my answer when that happens 🙏 (namaste) If he wants to be a dick about it and leave me in the dark totally those days are fortunatley numbered :/

Edit: we’re white and very (North)-American.

  • Bizzle@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    9 months ago

    So I’m not trying to judge or talk shit, but I am curious. Why would you choose to live that way? At least in my experience, being petty or spiteful always makes me feel worse. You might be happier if you let it go, especially since you by your own admission you wouldn’t be friends again anyway.

    • agitatedpotato@lemmy.world
      1·
      9 months ago

      Because I have to choose between either having to see him or no longer being friends with basically the only friends I still have. So it’s either I have to see his ass or I recluse. Spite is me coping with that, and it feels fine tbh. I don’t think about him unless topics like this come up or I have to see him. It’s not like it’s running my life or anything, I’m just looking for my opportunity.