• Kresten@feddit.dk
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    1 year ago

    I don’t understand how it’s transphobia. When you’re trans you’re just changing from one gender to the other M->F or F->M, right? How does this conflict with thta notion?

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      1 year ago

      There are non-binary people too. Being bigoted towards them is generally called transphobia, though maybe nb-phobia would be more accurate.

      Edit: also this is usually trying to claim that sex = gender so is transphobic from that perspective as well.

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            1 year ago

            Is it? Or you’re just making the problem worse?

            A person should feel good about how was born, gender and all. Like to fuck men, women? Who cares, but your identity, gender it’s what defines you. There are things in nature you can’t change.

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              is it? Or you’re just making the problem worse

              Yes and no, respectively.

              A person should feel good about how [they] was born

              Ideally, sure, but that’s not always possible and telling people that they’re not allowed to be trans doesn’t stop them from being trans, it only alienates them.

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                1 year ago

                Ideally, sure, but that’s not always possible and telling people that they’re not allowed to be trans doesn’t stop them from being trans, it only alienates them.

                Yes, that’s why some argue they should get psychological care not invasive and dangerous procedures.

                Of course saying this publicly nowadays gets you censored or even worse, cancelled.

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                  1 year ago

                  Those procedures ARE psychologically beneficial care and are mostly NOT dangerous, unlike whatever torturous conversion therapy equivalent you seem to have in mind.

                  Yeah, spreading medical misinformation rooted in bigotry and ignorance tends to have negative consequences when amongst people who know better. Funny how that works.

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                  1 year ago

                  Also, they can do whatever they want, doesn’t change my opinion on what they’re doing. Also would like to see those people to stop forcing these things on children/teens, specially trying to legalise gender change for those ages.

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                    1 year ago

                    No is forcing this on them.

                    The kids just know it exists and that some adults are fucking mean about it.