iByteABit [he/him]

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Cake day: July 22nd, 2023

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  • I’m not a psychologist but judging from what you say, you seem to be at the phase of acceptance.

    If you haven’t and still can, you should apologise to whoever you hurt, even if that’s yourself.

    Recognise what led you there, what where your thoughts and feelings that made you do it. Then try your hardest not to do it again.

    Don’t beat yourself up over it, everyone makes mistakes, big and small.

    Let the mistake change you for the better, mistakes are the best and most effective teachers if you decide to listen to them.

    Move on, but make sure to understand and forgive yourself and to let the mistake improve you.


  • Exactly this. I’m fortunate enough that the skills I’m good at have a lot of demand at the moment, but people I know that are more hard working than I am and very talented, struggle to get by just because their job for some reason is considered less worthy to pay for.

    Wanting to maintain this rotten system is the purest form of greed.




  • People here are way to eager to get into political arguments out of nowhere, usually in bad faith. The front-page is covered with doomscrolling content, being here too long makes me miserable and hopeless. The rest of the content is mostly tech stuff, which can only be interesting for so long.

    What I miss from Reddit, is the variety of diverse communities, people having fun and polite conversations, a sense of humor, and a lot of happy content or stuff that’s interesting but not limited to tech.

    At this point, I feel like the technology is much better and the user base much larger, but the user group is so extremely specific.

    I wish people from all political spectrums would engage in a civil conversation here and not reduce it to mockery and attacking. What’s the point of discussion if no one leaves with something new to think?