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Cake day: July 8th, 2023

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  • That’s an axiom that people always just themselves by their intent and others by their actions.

    This leads to excuses for themselves and harshness on others until proven otherwise.

    I’ve been trying lately to internalize my understanding of this to fight my natural impulse to fall into this universally human trap. Basically, be a kinder person by judging the actions of others by considering plausible reasons they may have had for doing something that rubs me the wrong way. Also the opposite, and being understanding when someone flips out on me for something I did because they don’t have access to all of my mental state that led me to that point.