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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • My parents used to be against me taking my meds. Been on them for nearly 9 years now.

    I was forced to stop taking them for months due to a shortage last year.

    My mother came over one day to find my house absolutely trashed, my mail piled up, my water shut off, I has gained 20 lbs, and all sorts of other “fun” things I was unable to address thanks to my condition.

    She no longer encourages me to stop taking my meds.

    Meds can be good. They may not be right for everyone, but take them if they help (while working with a qualified medical professional).


  • They want to know if your views will mesh well with the community they are trying to curate before they let you in.

    I browsed Beehaw for a bit before deciding that it did, and mentioned it in my application.

    I think they’re a bit more choosy now, as I used to see folks spouting things like “can you not use the word ‘minorities’? It shows a bias. You need to address everyone, not give preferential treatment,” or some other dumb horseshit.

    Honestly, I think they just don’t want to have to deal with people saying stupid shit and they’re tired of trying to argue with people who A). genuinely hold stupid, shitty beliefs, or B). are trolling/pretending to be stupid in order to get a reaction.

    More power to them, if that’s the case.





  • My old boss claimed to be a libertarian.

    He would always rant and rave about the government overstepping and forcing people to get the vaccine and wear masks (which never happened, but okay) and then in the next sentence would praise the folks in power who wanted to ban abortions.

    Like… motherfucker, at least be consistent!

    He also scoffed at me because “must be nice to get government money during the pandemic just for having a kid.” I got like 300$. That shithead gladly got a massive business bailout and just smugly read shitty articles and conspiracy theories from with Facebook Q group at work instead of doing his job.






  • I had to do this recently with one of my sisters.

    She’s so self-centered to the point where I just can’t stand her, and she keeps crossing boundaries that I have repeatedly set.

    Turns out, my mother begrudgingly admitted “She’s not malicious, she’s just mind-numbingly stupid.” I observed quietly for some time, and… yeah. She’s just stupid. That’s the only way I can’t be mad at her, so that’s what is keeping the peace between us.