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  • Phoebe@feddit.detoich_iel@feddit.deIch🏳️‍⚧️♟️iel
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    1 year ago

    Ein biologischer Unterschied macht noch keinen biologischen Vorteil. Ein Unterschied legitimiert auch noch keine strinkte Trennung aufgrund von einem Faktor X. Das ist grob das, worauf ich hinaus möchte.

    Das Thema ist sehr komplex und kann nicht mittels kurzer Nachrichten erklärt werden. Werde grade zum essen gerufen :D

    Es ist schon wiederlegt, dass Testosteron-Mengen in weiblich gelesen Körpern einen Vorteil in Menge an Sportarten X geben soll. Es hat keine signifikante Auswirkung auf die sportliche Leistung einer Frau. Was aber bewiesen werden kann ist, dass schwarze Frauen und Frauen mit natürlich hohem Testosteron Werten von Sportarten ausgeschlossen werden, weil eine Angst vor TransFrauen geschürt wird. Hier gibt es einen Unterschied, aber keinen Vorteil.

    Dazu empfehle ich gerne Videos von JessieGender aber auch Dokus des BR zu zyklusbasierenden Trainings. Muss nun zu meinem Freund zum food


  • Phoebe@feddit.detoich_iel@feddit.deIch🏳️‍⚧️♟️iel
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    Ich möchte den tollen Move des deutschen Schachverbunds nutzen um zu sagen: aus historischer Sicht ist der “biologische Vorteil” eines Geschlechts C in Thema Y erstunken und erlogen.

    Nachdem Religion und Naturmagie vom Wissenschaft abgelöst wurde, wird sie gerne von Nicht-Wissenschaftlern gerne zweckentfremdet, um Gatekeeping zu legitimieren. Wer kann schon etwas ernsthaftes gegen psyeudo medizinische oder biologische Argumente sagen? Für Laien sind sie schwer zu entlarven und kaum von realen wissenschaftlichen Meinungen zu unterscheiden.

    Wenn Frauen falsch trainiert werden, sie keinen Zugang zu gleichen Möglichkeiten haben, die Möglichkeiten nicht ihrem Körper entsprechen, oder sie durch Hausarbeiten/ Kinder davon abgehalten werden, zeit für Sport y zu widmen… dann kann man auch keine haltbaren Datenlagen erschaffen.


  • I might understand how you feel. Opening up is a good first step. But after that? I don’t know. What steps to take and how long your path will be… no one knows.

    Whenever anxiety tries to take controll of me… whenever i am angry at my own progress, i think about a little story:

    A man takes a morning-walk on the beach. During the night there was a terrible storm, spreading tousands of seastars over the sand. He sees a woman trying to bring the seastars back to the water.

    He walk up to her and asks: “why are you even doing this? You will just save a few, but the majority will die when the sun rises.”

    She bend down to pick one seastar up and throws it into the ocean. “Maybe. But this one i have saved.”

    Changing is hard and often feels pointless. The only thing we can do is doing things step by step.


  • Thank you 🥰

    When it comes to japanese food, Düsseldorf is really great. Cause i studied there i know some good Restaurants and supermarkets 😆 but i take recomondations all around nrw.

    i really want to taste spicy indian food or try other asian food, that is not so common here 🤔

    My best friend visited south korea a few years ago. She never liked spicy food, but said it was so good there, she now likes this stuff.





  • I try, i don’t have a heater yet T_T

    I really like it! I mean, it’s still in early access, much of the content is still in pogress. Bugfixes come regular and the discord server is helpfull.

    It does every farming stuff and it’s neat. The diving and cleaning the ocean stuff is nice. Pretty relaxing. I really like the Characterdesign and artwork. The Characters are diverse and the variety of bachelor/ettes is huge.

    I am waiting for the marriage Update!





  • I agree with you 😊

    Even tho i studied history, it took long to find topics like disability history, gender studies, science studies and… everything PoC are doing. Established Professionals downplayed all of these as not relevant. Not scientific enough. As a young professionell, you don’t want to ruin your reputation, so you don’t engage with that.

    In my country you are told, not to drift away from society. Not to built up your own ‘reality’, cause you read… a feministic book.

    These gashlight tactics had keep me from enganging with topics and communitys, which are interessting for me. I did not want to be outcasted. But now i feel more confidend.

    I want to dive into the neurodiverse community, cause it is such a new perspective in dealing with ones own life. Much more empowering! Much more brave. Learning to live with stuff like high sensitivity, instead of forcing myself to overcome it. It’s changing how i fre myself.

    And yeah: how people talk to each all over the world has changed. To devide us is an easy way to controll us. 10 years ago you couldn’t say that out loud (ya soundes paranoid) but since the facebook papers it has become more much more clearer. It’s a tool to undermine democraty. And a lot of people are stepping in that trap.


  • What a beatiful, beatiful coincidence! Hello, fellow ace! 😊

    You are damn right! We need more diversity, more voices like ours. To shape the psychology-landscape and to help people find acceptance/validation. Most of all, we need to talk. Openly, kindly, caring.

    In my country, every group of people is gossip about each other. Stereotypes, prejudice… it was always frustrating dealing with that. Not other people are destroing our way of life, but we are. With the hate we uphold.

    The rising right wing movement is pretty scary. I am worried about the future of my country, the Internet itself. But the queer community will always find a way.


  • I want to strech out, what “Heilpraktiker” are. Not for you but cause i want to express how much i dislike them.

    The Training programm doesn’t have much regulation. It’s just an exam and some courses to take. During this time you are told to “become creative” with the diagnosis. Only then you can see the biger picture.

    Right now they are in the spotlight cause if “false memory” tactics. They tell new trainees, that they had expierence child abused (when they have not) and by that making them question their own reality. They made them leave their family, isolate them and make them depent to them.

    And germans are like “but they seem more nicer than actual doctors so they have a Daseinsberechtigung” *screams into void"


  • This is so true.

    I had 2 therapies in my life but it never felt that helpfull. Yes, to give me a kind of stability and helped me to not felt into the dark. But i always felt under presure, when it comes to my asexuality (it’s just ‘trauma’). Or when i didn’t want to participate in ttrpg anymore cause the german geek community is sexist as fuq.

    I always felt that i would go crazy and that my fears are not real. That hurted so much and had delayed my “healing” unnecessary. Only when i found a partner to speak openly and when i connected to people dealing with the same stuff, i realized, that i wasn’t alone.

    I learned about adhd in women and how east germany had abused psychiatry (cause my stepdad was a refugee from there)… i’ve always believed in psychology, but right now my “believe” is shattered. How can people think, they know more than their patients? Know better how to treat them?

    I am glad there are people seeing the same issues. That there is a name to it. It makes me feel more empowered. Thank you.





  • Phoebe@feddit.detoMemes@lemmy.mlwho is this?
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    That’s okay. Yeah good internet conversation x)

    And yeah, growing older and growing apart is a part of what happen in my case. Priorities change over life. But it’s hard to find new friends for new parts of life.

    foreigners come to out country, are happy and highly motivated, but are leaving a few years later depressed and isolated. Cause they don’t find people to make friends with. Cause we are so closed of (i mention it cause i read an article about that. And i really do understand them)