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Cake day: June 23rd, 2023

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  • Yeah, it’s very easy for me to look back on the 90s with rose-tinted glasses (everything was so much simpler then! Great music! Hope!), but that’s overlooking the things that really weren’t great. Page 3 of the Sun, Chris Moyles on Radio 1 counting down to Charlotte Church’s 16 birthday (aka the age of consent 🤮) rape in marriage not really being considered a thing. All symptoms of bigger underlying problems.


  • How different it was to exist as a girl in the 90s in the UK. I know that decade was better than many that had gone before it, but I look back at media from my childhood and it seems crazy to me now how normalised so much misogyny was. And although it didn’t affect me directly, the same for anyone on the LQBTQ+ spectrum. Watching episodes of Friends makes me cringe.










  • You have to go to things where you regularly see the same people every week or month. This is the only way.

    Outside of work, my partner and I made most of our friends through music events. Going to the same kind of events a few times a month and spending time with the same people. We aren’t having kids so it’s been nice to meet other people in their 30s who also don’t have/want kids.