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  • I heard about this as well. I think maybe this is what is mistaken as subconscious. I think it’s the “dogs in a trench” coat situation. But there is actually some amount of deep communication. Maybe even just hormonal/ emotional.

    Sometimes in life I’ll get a feeling that’s origin is not immediately apparent to me. After some focus I can trace its origins to the intersection of two competing desires or something. That I understand. But other times… Even with long sessions of meditation, it feels like the explanation for some feelings do not reside within my own consciousness.

    I’ve begun to try and listen for other consciousness and understand them. I’ve gotten a sort of impression of a personality and when we’re both happy, I feel a sort of harmony. When they’re upset I feel a pull towards chaos. Doing something can be as simple as getting a drink they like or as complex as avoiding a certain social situation.

    Or it’s all in my imagination, lol. If so I’ll enjoy the placebo.


  • Or simply emoji based “reactions” like in most messaging platforms. This user friendly and immediately understandable system invites many ways to express how you feel about a comment. I think the community would eventually develop a sort of nuanced language to capture how we feel about a comment. Like “we all know what 🏴‍☠️ means.” But perhaps this is too abstract.




  • I’ve only personally owned the Anycubic Vyper which is supplanted by the Kobra. I’ve had it for ~3 years with a decent amount of use and abuse. It’s very forgiving and when you work on it you aren’t worried about breaking a 1k+ machine. That being said, since I use it so much, I’ve been thinking about upgrading to the Bamboo Labs P1 series for multifilament prints. If you’re going to be making smaller prints with finer detail, Like if you’re into model/figurine painting, you might want to look into resin printers. They’re more of a process to use, but you can get some amazing results.

    As for software, I use Blender, but I wouldn’t recommend it. It’s just what I had previous experience with. People in the space seem to really love Fusion360. But I can’t in good conscience recommend an AutoDesk product without a fat asterisk after it. They pull similar DRM shenanigans as Adobe. So checkout TinkerCAD. Or just Google: parametric modeling software.



  • 3D Printer. You’ll probably need to learn a bit of 3D modeling to get the most out of it and it is a hobby in its own right… But man, the amount of little bullshit stuff I had to buy from Amazon that now I print for pennies and to the exact specifications that I need. I made a new door shelf for my fridge to hold my coffee carafe, a door stop, a loop for my bedside table to hold cables, bracket to hold my webcam, hydroponics tower, drawer organizers, pegboard hooks, a plate to cover a weird shaped hole in my wall, a bracket to hang a rgb smart bulb behind my monitor, a phone stand, angled smart doorbell mount, broom and mop hanger, board games, and of course attachments for my 3D printer!!







  • Drewelite@lemmynsfw.comtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldHow much for cuddles?
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    5 months ago

    Men tend to trend more irresponsible, women more neurotic, in my experience. There’s plenty of exceptions, but on the whole that’s what I’ve seen. Neither is good, both can collapse a relationship. In straight relationships this can result in women taking on everything. Even where she’s overcome (or not originally had) any neuroticism, a sufficiently irresponsible man can still put the problem on her shoulders.
    What I think you’re omitting is that this can happen in reverse.

    Even when a man overcomes (or didn’t originally have) any irresponsibility, a sufficiently neurotic woman can still put all the problems on him. He has to pull the tasks away from her because she thinks only she can do it ‘right’. Only then can he pull his weight. But he then must also do the dance of convincing his partner that he’s doing a good job, or she’ll just feel compelled to do the work again herself.

    Of course most relationships are somewhere between these extremes. And some even see the roles reversed. People are, of course, extremely diverse. But this is a common pattern I’ve seen.