Check your wan IP on both your laptop and phone.
I typically use curl https://checkip.amazonaws.com
MAM has a great collection
I agree with using rsync
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Open a screen
then use something like this command:
rsync -arvzip --progress {$remote}:/path/to/remote/files /path/to/local/files
If you are using a different port for SSH, you’ll need to pass an option like -e 'ssh -p 12345'
I run QB through a docker container that’s an always on VPN
Then the xArr apps are in the same virtual network as QB. They run without a VPN